Intercrural Sex

Admin note: We left home today in our motor home. Our direction is to North Dakota and then turn west. We have no destination in mind. As usual, we will keep to the back roads avoiding cities. We will have limited bandwidth and will be in dark places at times. I have posts scheduled through the end of May. We expect to return home before Halloween.

Intercrural sex. Isn’t that an odd term? I had never heard of it when recently I learned that intercrural sex is a fancy way of talking about leg humping. It is also referred to as a pussy job. You insert an erect member between her legs and rub it on her pussy. So many ways of getting off other than PIV. Oral, hand, foot and pussy jobs.

So keep leg humping in mind while I change the subject.

A lot of men are rigid before and after a spanking, but go soft when the action gets serious. I would too. But, that is not what I want to happen. I like hard paddle licks, but I want, what I demand, are a few seconds between licks to absorb the sting before the next lick lands. Recently, some women revealed the metal gymnastics they do to get themselves through the initial pain until the endorphins kick in. While I am absorbing the sting of a lick I imagine it flowing from my bottom to the intense swelling on the other side. Seems to work as the swelling increases during my paddling. 

In my 20-30’s, almost all F/M spanking stories I read had the man otk with his erection nestled between the woman’s thighs. The story would fork to either him losing his erection or coming on her legs.  I did not care for either path. I want to keep my erection for more conventional friction activities.

By reading other F/M blogs since I started this one, I have learned more about how other men mix sex and spanking. Anywho, I have learned that while some men get aroused by spanking they want the pain to overcome them and others do not want a happy ending. Better for them to be kept horny to be better serve their woman. I am sure it would help keep me focused on her. But, I am selfish. Besides I read that three orgasms a week will add four years to a man’s life. 

I saw a clip, where the man was getting a brisk caning. It made me filch. He was quite happy as he was vigorously humping the bench he was bending over and achieved orgasm.

There should be a point to this post, but it seems there is none.


Just another picture post of women being spanked. With a musical bonus at the end.


Perhaps these gals will be sitting down with care.


From time-to-time, I have shared some music with you. But, not with any consistency. Stop what you are doing and give this your attention.

What If ‘Misty’ Was Played By 8 Legendary Jazz Pianists?


Do you ever read Vanilla Spankings? I found some things of interest in this post.

The French

Must be Hump Day

Admin: Yesterday’s EndArt post set a record high for eyeballs. Meanwhile, a not-so-good post Spanked At School remains #1 for the last three weeks. If I did a spanked by my M-I-L post that would garner even more eyeballs. I will pass on that. Maybe spanked by my M-I-L at school? Grin


There seem to be endless drawings of French maids being punished with martinets. Usually, it’s the lady of the house doing the honors. I suppose it’s an occupational hazard.

Sometimes the roles are reversed

I am told using a ladder is a French invention

The martinet is often seen

Really Consensual Spanking

So you went in the kitchen, annoyed your wife for the 2,000th time, suggested she paddle you with a kitchen spoon, she did, both felt better, sex followed. Ooops, wrong blog. How could a woman believe she was affecting behavior after two-thousand times with no change? She has to know it’s a game.

It’s good seeing women (and men) that know what they want and need and make it clear to their partner what that is and when they need it.

Thinking about all the times Bacall has brought me a paddle or started paddling herself to show me what was on her mind.

This post is what OBB is about


Thanks for all your likes. I followed your links, but found nothing about you.


Bra Spankings

Well, isn’t Bra Spanking an odd title? So I will open the week with something odd.

This first picture has been on my computer for almost two decades. It’s not that sexy is it? Why do I have it? I think I was drawn to it as we had a popup camper for a time. And we both got paddled in the great outdoors. I sure wish I had taken even one picture on those trips. Back in the days of film.

It’s obviously an amateur picture. The best kind, I think. It shows her bottom a light pink. She is young, 20-something I would guess. Perhaps the picture represents the charm and innocence of youth? That could be Bacall holding on to the tree. She has a thing for trees.

The other reason is that her bra strap is somehow appealing to me. Yes, I know that is weird. This is a self discovery I have made in my old age. I have always been drawn to small breasted women – B or maybe C cup. Small breasts are just as sensitive as larger ones to licks, caresses and pinches. They have the advantage of less sagging due to the natural aging process.

I looked through my pictures and found several that feature less endowed women taking or giving a spanking while wearing a bra. So I have had this fetish for a long time, it was just made clear to me recently.

There are times, that bare breasted is less appealing to me than wearing a bra. So revoke my male certification. In my spanking days, getting her bra off was never a thing with me. There was no reason for her bra to be off to be spanked. Some men think it adds humiliation. I don’t think anyone I spanked wanted to be humiliated. I sure never wanted to humiliate anyone.

Spanking was never a peep show for me. I could care less about her “parts”. I focused on spanking her. I watched how her body reacted to ever lick. Was there an involuntary muscle tremor? Did her head come up? Did she vocalize? Etc.

This one of girl spanking girl is equally appealing to me. Again small breasted. I think I might like this picture even more if the spankee had on a bra.

I have had the pleasure of seeing a few girl spanks girl scenes. Bacall was the spanker in a few of them. Have to say, the girls never held back.


In this girl spanks guy image, she has on a more substantial bra than the previous ones. The guy has his gossamer panties pulled down. [You know even thin panties provide protection from the sting of the paddle] I am not sure why she is holding the paddle like she is. It’s going to take some wrist action to get it flat on contact.


The next two are long time favs. They are from a series of a pro spanker giving the guy a long paddling. [In Atlanta, I think] Yeah, it’s her bra that makes it for me.



If one girl spanking a guy is good, two is four times as good.


The next four pictures show girls trying to look intimidating.


The next one shows no indication of an upcoming spanking. But I sure would like to be paddled by her. She looks like a lot of fun to me.


Two small breasted girls getting what for.


Motel room bondage fun. Love her enigmatic smile.



You think the blonde with her tongue out might enjoy a good time? You think the girl gripping her might know what kind of fun she likes?


I don’t expect any comments that anyone else that shares my unusual fetish. So it was an odd post, but that is standard fare here at OBB. Hope you enjoyed it.

If you want to know how Dallas (spanks hard) got into spanking listen to the podcast Never Too Old For Agoodspankin

Getting The Switch

Bacall and I were recipients of the switch. We know the terror of being told to go outside and get a good one. It is nothing either of us cares to relive. I have known a few women who loved the ritual of cutting their own switch and have their bottoms and legs stung and marked with a switch.

I prefer to use a thin green switch, in fact, several as they would be destroyed before I finished.

I think the following picture is remarkable. I see a middle-aged woman living out a fantasy. At about age 44 women of my generation became bold and acted on what they wanted.

The picture has the ever-popular element of being nude outside where you could be discovered. [I say so what if you are caught. You are not doing anything illegal]

PS, please don’t comment on her boobs, they have nothing to do with the switching. I love the look in her eyes.

Of course, it can also be an indoor activity.

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