No Spanking Here

For Openers

No spanking happening here. Neither of us is up for it. It was a sudden end for me. Freaking Leukemia.

Plus Bacall fractured her tibia. She is three weeks into six weeks in a cast. So I am doing most of the cooking. I thought we were sharing cooking about 50/50, but I was wrong. It’s more like she has been doing 70%. And she wants HER kitchen back.

For the first time in two months I put on panties yesterday – just to walk around the house. I thought it might improve my mood. They were bright red with black trim in a style Bacall has always liked.

She was using our spanking batten to scratch her cast bound leg when I walked by. She told if she could have reached me from her wheelchair my leg would have felt the sting of the batten. That’s as exciting as it gets around here these days.

This picture may not do much for you,  but it revs me up. We have such a leather slapper. It has a steel “enforcer” sewed between the leather sides. A few times a year I get the courage to ask for it. It produces a burn like nothing else. It’s narrow enough to go into the crease between my cheeks and legs. And she makes sure that it does. Yeeooo.

She also uses it on my thighs. Front and back. The sting lasts longer than the effect of any other percussion instrument. I can feel each place it landed an hour later.

Here’s what it looks like in the hands of a slim waisted woman.

If Bacall still had that waistline we would both be on the other side of 40. I have dropped 30 pounds in the last few months. I have punched six new holes in one belt. A few more pounds and I will be able to wear 38 waist pants again.  Freaking Leukemia.

Our slapper

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Brand New Panties

Cheap Thrills

So we bought some retro/vintage panties. They are full-cut nylon in light pastel shades of blue, yellow, and pink. They are so thin you can see the bottom turn red through them.

We tried them on and gave each other some pops. I wore yellow and Bacall choose blue. Bacall first thought about waiting until tomorrow to give them a full test. She reconsidered and we got to business.

Paddles and panties are my fetishes. They have always turned me on and I was stiff just thinking about it. We had fun.

BTW, my fondness for wearing panties does not mean I want to be a woman. And panties are the only female attire I wear. Anything else is a turn-off.





Get Those Panties Down

I occasionally read a spanking forum and note the comments from men about the proper position of women panties during a spanking. The majority desire the panties around her ankles or off. Others want them off her bottom or to her knees. It seems they believe the lesson will be quickly learned if the panties are off.

Well I don’t teach lessons, so all that I bull to me.

As usual, I have another mind on the subject. I always start spanking over her panties. I have a panty fetish. I like to see her in her panties. Back in the day, when I went to parties, I know the women spent a lot of time selecting panties to wear at the parties. They often changed several times a day. Sometimes to set a desired mood, other times to accommodate a man’s taste.

I take the panties down when I am ready. Just off the bottom is fine. The bottom will be completely exposed so I see no need to pull them down further.

You would want take these panties down?

Pulling Her Panties Down

I have been a member of a spanking forum for over a decade. I have not participated in any meaningful way in the last three years. The members I knew well burned out and have gone on and the new members have different views than the original group did. It is now overly populated by men that have slim chances of spanking anyone but are consumed by the prospect.

In the beginning, the women of the forum did not hesitate to post pictures of themselves. Those days are long gone. Now the pictures of are pro models that circulate on spanking blogs, Twitter, etc.

The most common comment these men make on a picture of a woman being spanked, it that they would make her bottom much redder. The second place comment is that her panties need to come down for the spanking to be effective. Both comments stem from viewing spankings as a punishment. OBB readers well know that we don’t spank for any reason other than it turns us on. So when any element of punishment is introduced we may not be interested.

That said, women expect their panties to come down. It’s not a big deal for them. Men seem to think taking panties down is like getting to third base in HS.

I learned in HS, I could take her panties down to continue a spanking without more than a feeble protest. It was natural. However, taking her panties down while making out was normally met with resistance.

In my days of spanking women, other than Bacall, I tried to figure which would best work on her mind. My custom was to have her stand in front of me while I decided if I would take her panties down or I would have her do it. It’s all part of the delicious anticipation and excitement of a spanking.

My Fav Scene In Secretary

Girls Just Want To Have Fun

Panty Fucking

Panty Fucking – WFT is that?

This old man is way behind. I was on a porn site. Yes, I was. I don’t recall what topic got me there, but it suggested a topic called panty fucking. Being a panty freak, I had to find out what that was about. Well, if you are like me, leading a sheltered life, you did know that panty fucking is nothing more than pulling the panty aside for sex. I slapped my head. I had never thought about that. All those moments in my youth I thought you had to take the panties off. Not a single gal ever just pulled her panty aside and said fuck me.

Obsessed With Panties

I posted on my wood paddle fetish Monday. Today I post on my panty fetish.

So a reader sent me this picture, which fired off all three of my brain cells.

This may be her sister?

Readers know I have a panty fetish which dovetails nicely with women’s fondness for having lots of panties that they want to show off.

Twice I have whiled away afternoons spanking girls in every pair of “nice” panties they had and both times it was their idea. One time with Bacall and another time with a friend. We did not get through both of Bacall’s drawers of panties. Something else came up.

This is the way it started off

Notice the tongue

And then the panty show

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