Men Getting a Hot Bottom

It’s Hump Day for the working folks

Paddling With a Grin

I Would Love to Feel Her Slapper

Audrey is Showing Him What It Feels Like

He Seems to be Getting What He Wants

I Suspect There Are Men Looking at This and Wishing They Were OTK and Under the Skirt

I have always wondered what was behind the fantasy of big women dominating little men.

FLR and Submission

Many animals, including bees, hyenas, and elephants, live in female-led societies.

A lot of men want an FLR. Nothing wrong with that. The best boss I ever had was female. She not controlling, she led.

The men I read about on spanking blogs and in stories want to be spanked for bad behavior. I can’t understand a woman desiring to be around a man who was always misbehaving. [Of course, some women stay with a man who abuses them] Wanting a hot bottom is one thing. Purposely annoying your mate to get spanked is – well, you come up with your own word for it. 

Imagine that year after year you do the same things to annoy your wife and then hand her a spoon to correct your behavior and relieve her stress. Is it role play or is the woman dumb as a doorknob to think she is doing anything positive?

Some women also want to be held accountable for their behavior and punished when they step out of bounds. In my experience most women are genuinely trying to improve and don’t misbehave just to get spanked – but some do. And geeze are they annoying.

 

A Chastity Question

This has been in my post ideas folder since 2017. It comes from the blog A Dominant Wife.

Dear Miss Jay,

I have been married for three years and have “led” our marriage since our honeymoon when I first took my husband over my knee on the second night. My husband is very obedient, trustworthy and understands that, in our marriage, his sexuality is entirely subordinate to mine. I am not a big fan of penetrative sex so he has only been allowed to enter me twice since we married. I allow him to masturbate, in the bathroom, once a month which seems to me to be more than enough.

Recently I have noticed he is becoming erect and, worse, “dribbling” and even having nocturnal emissions. I am quite sure this has effected his behavior despite knowing he derives no pleasure from these lapses. They still represent unconscious disobedience and I would like to nip this in the bud. The whole point of having a chaste husband is to ensure that what pleasure he gets depends completely on my assessment of his performance in his marital duties.

I read your blog and know that you keep your husband in a cock cage. I have thought of putting my husband in such a device but I wondered if the fact his cock is in a cage might not be making too much of his male member. Drawing attention as it were. What are your thoughts?

A Young Wife

I am just drop-jawed. So two people that have little interest in PIV sex marry one another. Of course, the letter might be a hoax.

https://dominant-wife.blogspot.com/2017/03/a-chastity-question.html

I Got Triggered

I was on a blog that I should have not been reading. This was the opening image.

You have no idea how such images piss me off. I just don’t care for submissive people, male or female. Submission is a weakness to me.

Yeah, I know this what a lot of men would relish. It’s also the stereotype women have of men who want to be spanked and that’s my prime objection. More than once women have avoided playing with me because they feared I would ask them to spank me. Being a male switch is tantamount to being ostracized, while female switches are prized.

If I never saw another image like this it would fine with me. I only like pictures that show both enjoying themselves – tears and expressions of anguish do not depict enjoyment to me.

Where’s my safe space?

Hiding An Erection

 

Femdom Captions

Some people are submissive. I had to deal with them in the work world and it was PIA since the subs needed special handling and care. I suppose it’s like hair color, nothing they can do about it.

I love captioned pictures. Well, I love to make fun of them anyway, especially the femdom ones. You know the ones that have women saying things some men wish women would say to them, but don’t.

The caption ruined the first image. You know how I relish a girdle. The girdle, tight sweater and wide belt date the picture to a time in my youth.

Who knew masturbation was a problem? Orgasm denial is much desired by some men.

I would have a long-term relationship with her. About a half-second after she said that.

Is this a kind of gender swap?

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

We got home Saturday. Gone 6 months to the day. Slowly, we will get back to some original content. Not a lot you understand, but some.

An afternoon of fun

I never thought of this position. Simply marvelous.

Cat Suits

There seems to be a universal outfit, no a uniform, for dominatrixes. A cat suit with boots and a whip.
It’s  not turn on for me, but it must be desired by a lot of men. We all like spanking, but we sure are a diverse group.

Caps are optional 

 Perhaps shorts are a summer wear option

Dildo’s are another option

Fem Dom Day

 

It can start early in life.

She is telling him to report to her every day at 4pm until the end of the semester.

Or maybe she takes this bent

Mother, Wife or Girl Friend that spoon is going redden your backside

 

OBB – Not your everyday spanking blog

Femdom

I get tickled at some of the captioned femdom pictures I see.

She says “for me…and for us”. Just what exactly did she get out of not having sex for a month? Two weeks without sex with me and she would history, no matter how good she looks.

Here is a caption that may be wishful to some. It’s ludicrous to me. However, her looks are captivating, don’t you think? Eyeballs, check. Hair, check. Legs, check. Attractive attire and jewlery, check. The pleated skirt makes the picture complete for me. OK, I would gladly fetch my paddle for her.