Another From Where It All Started

I was a late blooming spanker. While I spanked gals from around 15, it was never something I set out to do. It just happened. I have blogged about this several times and will not take up your time again with it. See Memories if you are interested.

In my 20’s I was all about spanking. I saw an ad from this lass who was seeking a spanker. I wrote her an audition letter. Regretally by the time she got my letter she had already found a man, but sent me a nice reply anyway.

Realistic F/F Spanking

This picture has a touch of realism to it. The daughter is going along with it, but is none too pleased about it.

Mom is letting the paddle do the talking

In this picture a lass commented: .. it epitomises what my desires (obsession) were about when I was a teenage schoolgirl … an authority figure, discipline, exposure, and being punished in front of another 😳 ….. oh my ! …. Karen xx

So which one would you want to be, daughter, father or mother?

The Biden Adminstration

I have not said anything about the Biden administration. I knew it would be bad, but it is greatly exceeding my expectations. It makes Obama look like a JV play.

It took until June, but Bernie and Elizabeth finally popped up. Bernie with a dream list of progressive pork and Liz with nominees to obstruct or restrict every damn thing.

The Biden administration and its progressive hangers-on are providing a master class on “How to Be an Anticapitalist” and suck the air out of the economy. 

Start by paying people to do nothing—1.8 million workers, according to a recent Morning Consult poll, have turned down jobs due to generous unemployment benefits, including an extra $300 a week from the federal government in some states. Meanwhile, Burger King is offering a $1,500 signing bonus. 

Anticapitalists then shut pipelines (except Russian ones) and suspend drilling leases in parts of Alaska, helping send oil prices above $70. The government says it wants to limit carbon emissions, but then it squashes better energy options like nuclear. 

An anticapitalist would next restrict capital formation, so President Biden has proposed raising the top capital-gains rate from 23.8% to a punitive 43.4% and the top individual income-tax rate to 39.6%. Mr. Biden also wants to waive Covid vaccine patents—making pharma companies think twice before investing in new drugs—and is even pushing a series of antitrust bills that could reverse mergers, like Facebook’s 2012 purchase of Instagram, as if that would do anything good for the economy or consumers. Nothing is safe. 

Add the Federal Trade Commission’s roadblocks to mergers. It worked hard to block early-cancer-detection pioneer Grail’s merger with genome- sequencing firm Illumina, now on hold as it lets the European Commission investigate. This is moronic. If you or a loved one is diagnosed with late- stage cancer in five years, the Biden administration could be to blame. Without meddling, Grail may have found it earlier, when it was still treatable. 

Anticapitalists in Congress are pushing $3.5 trillion in spending unrelated to infrastructure with an Orwellian sleight of hand by declaring it “human infrastructure.” Big surprise, it is larded with climate provisions and other progressive party favors. 

Then anticapitalists limit speech, open the borders, mess with education (math isn’t about getting the right answer anymore), ruin healthcare, and defund the police, causing crime rates to rise. Cities and suburbs have homeless encampments and brazen daytime crime. San Francisco shoplifters limit themselves to a total haul worth less than $950 knowing that the cops won’t stop them if they commit what 2014 California ballot proposition redefined as a misdemeanor. 

Spanking Blogs Are In The Rear View Mirror

Like you, I have noted that for the last two or three years spanking blogs are in decline. Many are no longer active. Some are dim images of their former selves. Even the ones that were most popular now have little content. I mean milking the same thing for years gets a bit tiresome.

Take the one called Incessantly Spanked. She has not been spanked in two years. Her blog is now about what color shoes she bought or the like. I pick this one out because when she was being spanked, it was by a fellow employee in the company parking lot – their tree house – during lunch.

One of the most popular F/M blogs went toes up and now I am seeing comments that would have been posted there, being submitted to OBB. Sorry, guys, but we are not about you being spanked by your landlord, boss, MIL, etc.

Bacall’s Toys

This image shows Bacall’s fav toys from about 20 years back. All but one were her picks, not mine. And that one was a gift from a friend. All but the ruler are still used.

From the left. A metal ruler she found cleaning out my Mothers rolltop desk. She though it worked just dandy on her thighs. 

The pussy whip. It has soft rubber falls that I use to tease her almost to orgasm. Works best when her thighs are on fire.

Her gift from our friend Bill. He made toys as a hobby and gave us several. This one has a soft leather side and a hard leather side. She purrs when the soft side is used and yelps when I flip it over. When I flip it I always tell her Bill wanted her to have it.

Her first purchased toy. It came from Shadow Lane. A pleasure toy, very flexible leather.

I made a batch of holey paddles for friends. They were made with white pine – a light density wood. She glommed on to it and declared she liked it better than any of the leather toys. It marked her conversion from leather to wood. She likes it used moderately. Which is the way I usually employ it. But, sometimes I enjoy her kicking and squirming and use it fast and furious.

When we get home we are going to order this leather paddle from London Tanners. We both got to experience it recently and declare it a winner. It’s unlike anything we have experienced before.

Girls Just Want To Have Fun

Another in the vein of Girls Just Want To Have Fun – and be spanked. Does making it out of college and into the real world mean that the guys become too uptight to spank? The women remain interested.

Oops, wrong blog

Sure she just happened to add a cane to her ensemble.

Hoping someone will give her an assist

She seems to be in a blissful state

More young lasses finding a second use for the ping pong paddles.

Whatever gave the idea to paddle each other?

A delightful addition to her costume

I recall a woman at a spanking party who put sticky notes on her panties indicting what she wanted.

Well there you have it – spanking is something many people sweep under the rug and are embarrassed about their thoughts. Then there are some who are public about their needs.

Bending The Cane

Frequently pictures depicting women with a cane shows them bending it. Is that supposed to be a measure of their authority or what?

While I have no interest in being caned (and I have been) I like to look at women who look like this. Well groomed in attractive lingerie and bright eyes.

The next three are in bras. My newly discovered attire preference for spankers

A cutie who is accurate with a cane


So many who are drawn to spanking also desire to submit to their spanking partner. This is true for both men and women. They seek order in what to them is chaos. They want to be led and be accountable to their partner. Submission seems as necessary to them as breathing, Finding a spanking partner is one challenge. Find one that will accept the offered leadership role is another hurdle.

Getting a partner willing to accept and honor the proffered submission is problematic. Long talks are held, contracts are written and then the submissive may test the dominant to see if they are paying attention.

Some intelligent women who want to be submissive seem to come alive when they find a dominant man. The game is on for them. They immediately concentrate their mind on finding ways to annoy the dominant, to flaunt his authority, to end-run him. They call it testing to see if he means what he says. I say it is a tiresome unrewarding game for the dominant.

Convince me I am wrong.

I would never accept a woman’s submission. I like women who are feisty and self-assured. I have zero interest in monitoring anyone’s behavior. Any woman that could interest me is able to pull her own weight and motivate herself to achieve her goals.

I don’t know why anyone would want to be submissive. I will not submit to anyone. I will gladly go along with suggestions, directions as long as they ask in a civil and courteous manner. I will not be told what to do.

I have never had the time or inclination to micromanage anyone.

There many terms for submissive/dominant roles. FLR/MLR, Sub/Dom, Master/Slave [OK, I coined Male Led Relationship] None of these roles are of interest to me. In fact one is repugnant.

Our relationship is equal. We both have responsibilities. We share chores.  We have never said you do that, I will do this. It has just evolved.

I started cooking more in the last few years. She stays out of her kitchen when I cook. I do likewise when she is the chef. I will usually do the chopping for her, but I do it out of her way.

It’s a long way of saying we share and we both have spheres of responsibility and there is never any conflict.

We are both alpha types. Usually, when I spank her she is not at all submissive. However, she sometimes relishes being a bedroom submissive. It usually takes her a day to meld her mind to being submissive.  When we play she will use sir for that time. Her choice, never mine.

Oral has never been a significant part of sex for us but she loves to suck my cock while in her submissive frame of mind.  Minutes after she comes she is back to being feisty. I would not want it any other way.