Pegging – Further Thoughts

After the Pegging post, I thought gee judging by pictures and stories on the web there sure are a lot of women that seem damn happy to peg their significant other. They are not at all ashamed to show their smiling faces with a dildo attached to them.

I then reflected on how many pictures and stories I have encountered about women enjoying spanking their mate. When was the last time you saw one? Not counting models, how many have you seen where the woman was obviously enjoying herself? A handful I imagine.

Both pegging and spanking require some level of dominance by the pegger/spanker, even when it’s just for fun, sex. But, it seems that women are cool with being dominant for pegging, but not for spanking.

In real-world F/M spanking, the woman is almost certainly spanking because the man wants it, not because she gets enjoyment from it. Commonly the man has conned her into using spanking to resolve conflicts – conflicts that the man repeatedly institutes. I have a hard time thinking that any woman is so dense that she buys into believing that spanking him week after week for years for the same offense is effective.

Let’s face it, most women are not wired to spank men. Call it DNA or culture. They are much more receptive to being spanked than giving a spanking.

I would love to hear your POV on why women see pegging and spanking differently.

Here are four pictures from my collection that I believe are not models or pros but seem enthusiastic about spanking. Only four and I would not bet they authentic.

 

 

2 thoughts on “Pegging – Further Thoughts”

  1. We discuss the issue of the man’s desire to be caned versus the woman’s desire to punish. My lady friend has a strong sense that she needs to do it to me, it is meaningful and sexual for her. But her need does not always coincide with the tine that i feel a need to receive it. Then I must bow to her wishes without complaint. If i tell her i really feel a need, she thinks it over sometimes she can accommodate sometimes she just says it is not the right time. I have learned that i don’t want to take advantage of her and so i want it to be when it is right for her.

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