Confession: As an adult, I have never wanted to be paddled by a man. Even in a fantasy. Call me homophobic if you like. Nor did I ever want another man to know I had been paddled.
The other day I saw a picture of a man paddling a man. I don’t see many of those in the great sea of spanking pictures. It hit me that I think every M/M picture I have seen the man bent over was wearing tighty-whities. They seem to be the universal underwear for M/M percussive activities.
I suspect that most boys wore them. I did. I changed to boxers at 17 and stayed with them for decades. Except when it was paddling time, then I put on either tighty-whities or panties because they enhanced my spanking enjoyment. So naughty. The panties were in a way like tighty-whities.
Being paddled in boxers did not appeal to me, but I wanted to be paddled first with some underwear on, before taking the paddle bare.
For daily wear, Bacall prefers me to wear boxer-briefs. But when it’s paddle time, I put on panties.