It’s a common theme that some men and women want a third person to witness their spanking to increase their embarrassment. Doesn’t work for us. We are never embarrassed.
In fact, if someone witnesses or better yet participates in my spanking it is most welcome. I have had the privilege of Bacall have other women join her in paddling me. It was fun for all of us.
I guess if you are submissive or attracted to being punished, then the embarrassed deal works for you.