I am on my soapbox today.
Where are the feminists? They don’t seem to be on spanking sites. The women I am going to write about will probably not see this. They are devout bottoms and want nothing to do with even thinking about spanking men.
OBB is all about consensual spanking. Neither of us will be dominated by anyone or seeks to dominate anyone. Most F/M blogs are about the female being in charge. Most M/F blogs are about the man being in charge. Got it. That’s an agreement between two people.
It’s when the activities, real or fantasy, depict non-consensual behavior that we feel the responsible action is to speak out.
Men seem to be outed hourly for unwanted suggestive words, for inappropriate touching, or coercive sex, etc. So I am puzzled by popular spanking blogs that regularly offer stories of fictional nonconsensual spankings of underage females. This baffles me when the blogger is female. It’s a head-scratcher to me that female reader’s of these stories are enthusiastic in their response to the stories. It is the readers that concern me more than a single blogger. Where are the feminists?
Tales of being caned by the headmaster and the like are tiresome to me. Using the power of a position to bare always delectable bottoms seems to me to be akin to rape.
Is this what they would want for their own daughter?
Is this what they want their sons to do?
All of us need to set appropriate examples.
Why do women enjoy such stories? Do female readers of these stories see themselves as something to be conquered and tamed? Do they sincerely want men to be like the characters in the stories?
This is a hot button for us. We are both involved with both men and women who are physically abused. And yes, spanking/beatings of kids are a part of it. We are unalterably opposed to the depiction of abuse to minors.
This morning I read a profile of a male spanker that is looking for a casual spanking experience. His favorite roleplay scenes are principal/student and daddy/daughter. He is a retired HS principal.