Just wanted to say that continues to amaze me that these two old posts continue to garner more hits than more current fare. I suppose if the goal of OBB was popularity or getting eyeballs for ads, then I should do more posts about Mother In Laws who spank their Son In Laws. Anything to do with dominant females gets hits. A lot more men want to be controlled and punished by women than men who enjoy the simple sexual excitement of a spanking.

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May 21, 2013, 4 comments

If popularity were the goal, then I could link to female dominate blogs. I am positive OBB would get hits from reciprocal links. OBB is not linked to from any female dominate blogs because I have always been incredulous about their interests.

Ear Worms

We’ve all had songs playing in the background in our head. It’s usually a song we don’t like but we just can’t get rid of it. This morning while I was shaving I was reminiscing about the days when one or more young ladies would be at the house and we would all be in panties and the paddles would be popping someone’s bottom all through the day. I felt it was a great freedom to be able to have my kink accepted. These thoughts floated in my wee mind for a time. 

An hour or so later, I chatted with a woman online who shares some of our interests like paddles and panties. She mentioned she had been reading our blog recently and was amused by my post about wearing a girdle while being paddled.

After our chat, I went outside to do some chores and  I merged these two thoughts and imagined she and her husband would be with us and we would all be wearing panties. I wondered if she would encourage me to put on a girdle and if she would take the initiative to paddle me in it.

Funny how the idle mind works.

Non Consensual Spanking – Where are the feminists?

I am on my soapbox today.

Where are the feminists? They don’t seem to be on spanking sites. The women I am going to write about will probably not see this. They are devout bottoms and want nothing to do with even thinking about spanking men. 

OBB is all about consensual spanking. Neither of us will be dominated by anyone or seeks to dominate anyone. Most F/M blogs are about the female being in charge. Most M/F blogs are about the man being in charge. Got it. That’s an agreement between two people. 

It’s when the activities, real or fantasy, depict non-consensual behavior that we feel the responsible action is to speak out.

Men seem to be outed hourly for unwanted suggestive words, for inappropriate touching, or coercive sex, etc. So I am puzzled by popular spanking blogs that regularly offer stories of fictional nonconsensual spankings of underage females. This baffles me when the blogger is female. It’s a head-scratcher to me that female reader’s of these stories are enthusiastic in their response to the stories. It is the readers that concern me more than a single blogger. Where are the feminists?

Tales of being caned by the headmaster and the like are tiresome to me. Using the power of a position to bare always delectable bottoms seems to me to be akin to rape. 

Is this what they would want for their own daughter?
Is this what they want their sons to do?
All of us need to set appropriate examples.

Why do women enjoy such stories? Do female readers of these stories see themselves as something to be conquered and tamed? Do they sincerely want men to be like the characters in the stories?

There is a dichotomy between such fiction and how women say they want to be treated. It seems that “please abuse me” is in a lot of women’s dreams. It has to be confusing to men with no moral compass. Publishing such stories is like tossing gasoline on a smoldering fire. It’s despicable.

This is a hot button for us. We are both involved with both men and women who are physically abused. And yes, spanking/beatings of kids are a part of it. We are unalterably opposed to the depiction of abuse to minors.

This morning I read a profile of a male spanker that is looking for a casual spanking experience. His favorite roleplay scenes are principal/student and daddy/daughter. He is a retired HS principal.

Today’s word is APHORISM

Aphorism is a statement of truth or opinion expressed in a concise and witty manner.

♦ When wearing a bikini, women reveal 90% of their body. Men are so polite they only look at the covered parts.       

♦ Relationships are a lot like algebra. Have you ever looked at your X and wondered Y?

♦ You know that tingly little feeling you get when you love someone? That’s common sense leaving your body   

♦ My therapist says I have a preoccupation with vengeance. We’ll see about that!                     

♦ I always wondered what the job application is like at Hooters. Do they just give you a bra and say, “Here, fill this out?”        

♦ I can’t understand why women are OK that JC Penny has an older women’s clothing line named, ” Sag Harbor .”