How Much Anonymity Do You Need?


I notice that in amateur spanking (and porn) pictures and clips, the woman’s face is often shown. While a man’s is usually hidden. In one picture the guy is wearing a ski mask. This seems to be the rule in amateur porn. There are numerous spanking blogs by women, but very few by men. [I am talking about blogs with words, not Tumblr sites] Women more frequently comment on spanking blogs than men and nearly always with a web persona, while men comment anonymously.

What do you think causes the disparity? Why do men feel the need to hide, while women can appear to be more open and still remain anonymous?

Our kinky email address, mybottomburns at gmail dot com, provides all the anonymity we need. No one will discover real names, home address, etc by corresponding with anyone using a Gmail address. It is just not possible.

You can maintain your anonymity posting comments with a Google, WordPress, etc web persona identity.

I probably will not convert skeptics with this post. So be it. I tried.


Can You Trace an Email Address?
Yes and No. Depends on many factors. But, Gmail will ONLY trace back to Google IP addresses. 

Sometimes the initiating IP can be located and can be looked up to determine from where the message was sent. In the case of residentail use, the IP address location information DOES NOT contain your street name, house number, or phone number. The trace will most likely determine the city and the ISP the sender used. Beyond that, you would need a court order.

Location is even more difficult to trace from an email sent using a hot spot from a cell phone. 

6 thoughts on “How Much Anonymity Do You Need?”

  1. plus on some days i use a vpn cos i have one for other purposes. i guess men feel that they have more to lose with high-stakes careers? i'm just guessing.

  2. It's sad that we don't have more men out here in blogland. Used to have a few more than we do now so very much appreciate those who are here. Oh and since I live in the country, my only ISP access is via satellite so it's actually traced back to the location of the satellite server in Texas…nowhere near me.

    Hugs and blessings…Cat

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