Regular readers know that Bacall and I are both Alpha types. We can’t spell submissive. Want to know where Bacall’s mind is on leadership in a relationship? If it’s possible, to sum up her outlook in a song, then these two might do it. She will not tolerate being told what to do. No one owns her.
Nor will she tolerate a wimpy guy.
She wants a gentleman. Not a man to boss her around, but one who will spank her when she wants it. And she always lets me know when she wants it.
I’m not just one of your many toys
You don’t own me
Don’t say I can’t go with other boys
Don’t tell me what to say
And please, when I go out with you
Don’t put me on display ’cause
Don’t try to change me in any way
You don’t own me
Don’t tie me down ’cause I’d never stay
I don’t tell you what to do
So just let me be myself
That’s all I ask of you
I’m free and I love to be free
To live my life the way I want
To say and do whatever I please
Oh,…
Johnny Get Angry
Just to see what you would do
You stood there and hung your head
Made me wish that I were dead
Give me the biggest lecture I ever had
I want a brave man, I want a cave man
Johnny, show me that you care, really care for me
You let Freddy cut in constantly
When he’d ask, you’d never speak
Must you always be so meek?
She can always look up to
You know I love you, of course
Let me know that you’re the boss
Johnny, Johnny, Johnny, Johnny
Bacall has good taste in music. Love both of these songs and very much agree with the second one…can't handle a wimp, wuss or passive-aggressive man.
Hugs and blessings…Cat