I wanted to see if the answers revealed anything that I considered useful. So I tallied up the responses to four of the questions.
15. Do you like to be spanked in role-play, real life situations, or no situation?
18. For true offenses, made-up ones or none?
21. While being spanked do you feel: turned on, enjoyment, satisfaction, pain, other.
22. While being spanked do you: get an erection, remain soft, leak fluid, orgasm.
Here are a few observations made based on the responses of 56 respondents.
22 men were only interested in being spanked for real offenses. 15 of those felt pain only. Most started out soft. All ended up soft.
Another 22 men liked to be spanked only in role play. 7 started and ended erect. 5 started erect and ended soft. 7 started and remained soft. The remaining 3 experienced an orgasm.
Spanking is always sexy to me. If Bacall tells me she is going to spank me my sexual response indicator goes up.
But this survey tells me, that some men only want to be spanked for real life offenses and they experience pain, not sexual excitement. Surprise to me.
Then there are those that only like to be spanked for made up reasons. This group reported it was sexually exciting.
I suspect that in the first group there are those who commit little offenses they know will earn them a spanking. Like going in the kitchen when the wife is cooking and making a smart remark. He knows that his well-trained wife will have him drop his pants so she can paddle him with a handy cooking spoon. He thanks her for punishing him. He knows that they can have make-up sex later. I don’t think this group belongs in the real life or role play category. Is there a bull shit category? How does the wife see it? Role play? She certainly can not believe she is having any effect on his behavior as he keeps doing it again and again.
Personally, I don’t need a reason to spank or be spanked. Bend over works for us. Bacall can go into role play in a heart beat and I do my best to be her foil.