I confess, I have always enjoyed a hand job more than a blow job, so I must be missing a key part of male DNA. Never once have I wished for a woman with a flat head for a place to rest my beer while her talented lips envelope my cock. Not once. Perhaps I have double Y genes?
I think the reason for my preference is that conversation is difficult when the tongue is suppressed. I really enjoy dirty talk while Bacall strokes me. She can come up with new and original stories anytime.
Sometimes after she paddles me, we will lay in bed face-to-face and she will tell me a naughty story as she slowly stokes me. When she knows I am about to there, she quickens the pace and in seconds there is yet another happy ending.
I am often able to return the favor when her bottom is aflame. I mention things like I can always paddle her more and that she will have to take the licks. That usually results in her mouth opening wide, emitting a gasp and her hips arching up. After her first come, I enter her.
Our Bottoms Burn 
I am a big fan of hand jobs as well. Agree that the mouth is better applied to the words that play such a major role in taking you to the desired joyful ending. Shows how the mind is wired to the sensitive spots.
My hubby and I have become believers in the hand job. When we were younger it was always the bj for him, and I enjoyed giving him pleasure in that way. Although we still both enjoy the occasional bj, the hand has taken over. For me I like watching him as he “arrives”, and even the feeling of his seed on my body and then rubbing him on me where the “mess” is. And we agree also that being able to talk “dirty” or tease while stroking is an added benefit…plus I often get an extra spanking after for being such a bad girl and doing it to him….thanks for posting….just one was we enjoy each other
My hubby and I have become believers in the hand job. When we were younger it was always the bj for him, and I enjoyed giving him pleasure in that way. Although we still both enjoy the occasional bj, the hand has taken over. For me I like watching him as he “arrives”, and even the feeling of his seed on my body and then rubbing him on me where the “mess” is. And we agree also that being able to talk “dirty” or tease while stroking is an added benefit…plus I often get an extra spanking after for being such a bad girl and doing it to him….thanks for posting….just one was we enjoy each other
Women do enjoy “watching the arrival”. Bacall always moves so she has a good view at that point.
Although, I wrote the post about men, we have as many times with her getting my fingers. This way I can concentrate on her and not worry at all about myself. After a lot of finger teasing, I use the vibrator to give her release.
Have to agree with the finger attention, it is fun to be the center of attention when playing and not have to worry about him…all pleasure concentrated on my area. But I am lucky that he can make me arrive several times just from a spanking, so usually do not get both during a session. Either one wears me out till I am ready to please him. Not much of a vibrator girl, just never needed that extra stimulation.
Women have a far greater range orgasm potential than men. We are so easy. You are at one end, able to orgasm from spanking alone. At the extreme other end, are those who have never had one.
Bacall is somewhere in the upper middle. She gets twinges from spanking, especially on the inner thighs. But needs more to orgasm. Sometimes, fingers,other times the vibrator and still others me. Of course, she will opt for the trifecta sometimes.
A vibrator is way too much stimulation for some.