Happy halloweenDid you expect that I would post something different on this day?

Dog sitting the grand dog this evening. So we will sit outside serving the goblins and see how Lucy reacts to the costumes.

Who knows, maybe this lass will pop by. A guy can dream.

The Big Femdom Post

A lot of the male readers of OBB are into femdom to one degree or another. I get some of it. The rest is beyond me. I have always said that once we admit we like spanking to someone, we all go off in different directions from there. Femdom for me is for Bacall to tell me to bend over. She then paddles my bottom with about two dozen licks and I am done. No whips or chains. I must be a boring spanko. Heck, Bacall is kinkier than I am.

From the gitgo this blog’s reoccurring theme is that men can be spanked and still be men. Punishment, discipline, humiliation are not required. I think a lot more women could get into spanking their man if men did not want to go so far out there on the femdom scale. This post highlights some of the things men want to be “forced” to do. Some women enjoy some kinky things that they liked to be “forced” to do, but their list is a lot shorter than the men’s list. This post does not even begin to cover the whole list.

I will start with some things I don’t need:

Getting a hand job with rubber gloves 
Putting any cages or rope on my equipment 
Even thinking about beating or squeezing my equipment 
Licking feet 
Wearing a collar
Here are some more femdom items, all taken from spanking blogs. Some far removed from spanking. But, then some think Vodka makes a good martini.

Cap girl

There are a lot of captioned pictures like this with women saying improbable things. It must be a turn on for a lot men. As for foregoing orgasm, I may try that in my next life. I read that orgasms prolong life. They sure do make life more interesting.

Double trouble
Pegging is a pleasure for some. This picture brings up two questions for me. 1) Why the boots? 2) Why are they in the kitchen?


Another picture in the kitchen! We have both been spanked in the kitchen at one time or another, but I wonder why the location is so popular in professional pictures.

While I hate going OTK, I like thighs. I especially like thighs encased in nylon. It’s wonderful feeling to nestle between legs in silky slippery hose. Some younger men may have never had the experience.

I Never understood why some straps are split. Has anyone done an A/B test and found out that split straps sting more?

No cum

Seems that another man wants to be denied sex. I spent enough time being attentive, but horny, as a teenager. No interest in going back there. 

Standard domme wear

Leather chocker, corset, gloves, crop, and garter belt. All set to dom. I am positive the crop would fit her bottom.

Stupid captions

Probably the third date. I have never met a women like this. Have you? I understand they are out there.


Seriously? I would never understand this scene

For femdom
Another one that is beyond me. I prefer horseradish rather than wasabi on my FOOD.

Crying and cumming
Some women can orgasm from spanking alone, so I guess some men can also. Yeah, I know his member is clamped between her damp, silky hose covered thighs. I can’t relate sexual arousal to crying tho. I may have had sex that was so good I could have cried. And I am sure I wanted to cry when I did not get laid a few times.

Femdom1Thigh high boots again. Bacall had a pair of those when we got married – but not that much heel. She looked good in them. Sadly physical problems with her foot cut out her high heel wearing before she was 45. She would still love to put on a pair and priss around. But, can’t.

I sure hope this guy is looking for someone’s contact lens. Otherwise, it’s way too subbie for me.

OK, that’s 11 pictures. More than I have ever posted before.

Paddled At Home

I saw this short clip of a guy getting paddled by his wife/SO this morning and decided to call attention to it as it is rare that there is any intelligible speech on home videos and second that he reacts to the licks. I like to see some reaction. Those that can just take it, don’t make for interesting viewing. You might say he is wuss. I say she is swinging a mean paddle with enthusiasm. It’s punishment paddling for several things. However, that he is wearing panties tells me a part of him is enjoying getting the paddle.

Spanking Tube

Have a good weekend!

How We Change

This is our first post since I installed Windows 7 on my MacBook. I know that it is blasphemy for many Mac heads, but having just purchased two programs that have no like beast on the Mac platform, I bit the bullet and installed Parallels so I can run Mountain Lion and Windows 7 at the same time. It works. Of course, Windows sucks up a lot of processing and slows down everything, but I can now use some much missed apps. One of the apps, is Windows Live, a free blogging app that works much better than anything available on the Mac platform at any cost.

OK, now today’s post. It’s always interesting to me to see how our spanking lives change. Things move along with a sameness and something happens and your attention is focused on something new. It’s usually something of little consequence, still it is always good to have freshness in life.

I have been spending a little time this last month chatting online. I have not done this in over a decade. I stumbled on a small forum where the folks are friendly. [I could never get interested in Fetlife and no one on Fetlife had any interest in us] So I am chatting with this woman and she types “Well, we will introduce you to the strap”. I replied that straps did not do it for me as much as wood paddles. The chat ended soon after that I thought no more about her remark. No more that is until the next morning when I woke up seeing a wide brown strap being used on me. OK, no big deal. The next morning I woke up with the exact same image in my wee brain. After breakfast, I got out a strap that I made over a decade back. It’s two layers of latigo tanned leather mounted on an ergonomic handle. I made it to use on Bacall and other gals. I have felt it before, but it was never on my play list. I swatted Bacall with it a few times and got the expected Oh’s. I then asked for her to use it on me. Over my thin shorts it was Simply Yummy! I got going on the morning projects, but after 15 minutes, I asked Bacall to give me some more. I pulled my shorts down and she landed a few more. I then got to the projects with increased enthusiasm.

So to my cyber friend, thanks for the change. It’s small, but it’s enjoyable and appreciated. Just goes to show how something you say or do affects others.

All you need to know about latigo tanned leather is that it’s stiff. I made the handle so it can be used with accuracy. No wrapping.

We will go out today with surf music. Dick Dale’s classic Miserlou. You may think of Pulp Fiction, I recall a beach bar in Mission Beach circa 1966. A picture of beer, with a small can of tomato juice in it and two fish taco’s. Tab about $5.

The Fall Spirit

In the middle of college football season, it seems a salute to cheerleaders would be appropriate. They so seldom are shown on TV anymore.

The skirts are short, they are just not plaid.

If only we had Hermoine to caption these pictures.


She knows exactly the effect of this pose. Bless her heart.


Afternoon Delight



Oh my, she is naughty doing this at a game



She wants to be spanked


Cheerleader21Southern California girls showing off. Go Trojans!


Amateur Photographs

Amateur photographs are in many ways preferable to me over those of professional models. Today I am posting one of a cyber friend. The story behind the picture is that it was her first spanking in 3 1/2 years and it was taken near the beginning of her spanking. We will call her Naughty. Thanks sweetie!

Naw monkey

If you want to see more amateur pictures posted here, posting a positive comment might help.

Ultimate Femdom

For all you Femdom fans

The Million Eyes of Sumuru is a 1967 British spy film produced by Harry Alan Towers, directed by Lindsay Shonteffand filmed at the Shaw Brothers studios in Hong Kong. It stars Frankie Avalon and George Nader, with Shirley Eatonas the titular Sumuru.[1] It was based on a series of novels by Sax Rohmer about a megalomaniac femme fatale.

Sumuru is a beautiful but evil woman who plans world domination by having her sexy all-female army eliminate male leaders and replace them with her female agents.


PS If ever a man needed dominating, it was Frankie Avalon.