On Submission

Bonnie’s recent brunch question was:

Do you find it necessary to reconcile feminism with your interest in being spanked? Why or why not? If so, how do you accommodate both?

We thought the answers were good, especially Kitty’s.

We thought there were two corollary points.

1) Some submissive women play “bossy”. They feel they must adopt this face to survive in the biz world.

We see no conflict with being a feminist and being a bedroom submissive. [We are not talking about militant, man-hating women]

2) What about men that like to be spanked. Do they give up their masculinity being spanked by a woman?

6 thoughts on “On Submission”

  1. Since I'm friends with several men that allow themselves to be spanked, I'd say the answer to your question is a definite, emphatic NO!


    P.S. I always view them as very masculine.

  2. No, we do not diminish our masculinity. In many cases men whose jobs and predominant personality put them in charge simply enjoy the opportunity to go over to the other side. At the same time, women who defer to men in the family often much enjoy the opportunity to be dominant. At least that is my experience.

  3. This is always an interesting question. I think anyone who truly takes ownership of their sexuality in whatever form, is (by definition) a 'take charge' kind of person. I have never felt less of a man because my Lady spanks me. In fact I am rather proud of it.

  4. I can't say what the ladies might think but I don't think male spankees give up their masculinity when they submit to a spanking or punishment. For myself I am still an alpha male outside the home, I just like to swop places in the home and get told what to do and how to behave, plus I am a big fan of the endorphins released when my butt is whacked.

  5. I enjoyed reading what the male spankees have to say on this subject. I hope more will contribute their two cents.


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