This picture has nothing to do with spanking???

It has a lot to do with spanking for me. Many times Becall has assumed this pose, mostly sitting on my desk. Daring me to paddle her. So far, it has worked every time for her.

not a spanking picture

Rachel & aj commented You are a very lucky man to read her hints and respond correctly.

I am a lucky man. Becall is equally lucky. We are in tune with each other in more ways than spanking. But, her hints are as subtle as a Army Airborne landing. This sure helps me. She knows wants she wants and she is not shy about letting me know. I try to do likewise with her.

Flashing stocking tops indicates she wants to play naughty secretary. This need happens three or four times a year. She dresses much like the woman in the photograph and perches on the corner of my desk exposing herself. She proceeds to tell me she is too old to be spanked, yatayata. I keep a few toys in my desk. One is short cane. When she has almost finished explaining to me how I will not spank her ever again I spread her legs and slowly and carefully give her a thigh fry. Once this starts, she fully cooperates by leaning back on her hands behind her giving me room to switch the inside of her legs.

After a dozen or so with the cane, I have her bend over the desk and I paddle her rear end. These sessions are more severe than our usual. But, I know what she expects after all these years and I try to deliver.

Some people like knife play. I find an ordinary pair of scissors can add a little something to the play scene. I just cut her panties to allow access. My desk is just the right height for me to enter her while she lays on the desk top. Good thing I always have a next desktop isn’t it?

I don’t get it

I love spanking. But, I do not understand DD for men or women. I have written about that subject several times. I just cannot imagine adults consistently engaging in behavior that would “earn” them a spanking. Yes, I have known women that acted out to get spanked. The spankings did not deter future tantrums. I suppose it is the same with some men.

The author of the popular Blog Spanked Hubby, earns spankings from his wife. They then make up and enjoy sex. I think I understand how that works. It’s a subterfuge, but if it makes them happy, good for them.

He writes of one couple at a spanking party. This I cannot get, as it seems the spanking was not fun at any time. Perhaps he is a true masochistic?

Can you explain it to me?

Spanked Hubby

Carey, Get Out Your Cane

Oh Carey get out your cane 
And I'll put on some silver
Oh you're a mean old Daddy, but I like you fine

Joni Mitchell was a first, but distant, love of mine. The embers still glow.  These lyrics are from her 1971 album “Blue”. I would wager that she did not mean to imply the use of a cane the way you are thinking. You pervert!


I think the cane is a sensuous implement. Becall loves to hear it swish. Sound is a crucial ingredient of spanking.

Do you want to see more pictures of the cane?

Passion and Spanking

We spent the weekend with Bonnie and Randy. Friday night after dinner, Bonnie came into the living room looking captivating in her cheerleader outfit. Her points were firm and high. She held her sorority paddle in her left hand. She sat next to me on the couch and asked me if I was ever going to ask to paddle her. On the behalf of a million other men, I gladly accepted her kind offer. She bent over and I cracked the paddle on her luscious bottom.


POOOF! OK, that was a dream.

Now while I am sure it would give me some pleasure to paddle Bonnie. I really doubt the experience would be much more than enduring the pain of the paddle for her. Why? Well she has stated, many times, that for her it only works with Randy. And while it might be fun for me to paddle her, I really doubt it would be all that special since we have developed no emotions, no love, no trust, etc.

You remember those kisses when you both had your tongues down each others throats and you suddenly felt like a gallon of assorted hormones had been poured into you and all you wanted to do was to melt into the other, and clothes were flying right and left. That does not happen with every person you kiss. While most kisses are quite warm and pleasurable and one can get aroused, I think few of them are over-the-top. Maybe a dozen partners in a lifetime? Probably less.

I think it is the same way with spanking. With different partners, the experience can range from that did nothing for me, to lots of fun, to I went into orbit. When both feel the same way, then it is something you will never forget or get enough of. Becall and I can still, on occasion, make a spanking session as exhilarating as our first kiss.

Spanking parties can be fun. You can meet some great people with like interests. I think this can make you feel better about yourself. I think you will also ‘kiss a lot of frogs”. It’s really difficult for both to reach the emotional state needed to really enjoy a spanking with a stranger. I suspect this would be the case with Bonnie and I. [And no I am not suggesting she is frog, that would be me]

Becall and I have enjoyed other spanking partners, but it has been rare that it was not a frog. I think she has had more fun OTK than I have. Perhaps only due to the fact that the number of women who spank men is much less than the other way around. Most of the woman I have bent over for, I had high expectations based on emails and phone conversations. But, when the paddle met the bottom, it was sometimes less than inspiring.

Oh sure it has been lots of fun lifting skirts and seeing the underwear that she wanted me to see. And it’s equal fun to pull the panties down. If the spanking works for either of us depends, I think on the chemistry between us. Much like those fervent kisses.

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I trust this post is good taste, else Randy might be looking for me.