As we were coming back from a hike the other day, I asked Becall if she wanted to be the spankee or the spanker. She responded that we should switch today. I readily agreed and suggested we pick our own paddles. She opted for 20 licks with her holey paddle and I, feeling bullet proof, chose 10 licks each with two of our stingy paddles. We each got what we wanted and the sex was great.
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From time-to-time I have wondered how a spanking would feel if I gave the spanker free reign to blister my bottom. From reading this blog, you know I like my paddlings given with hard measured strokes using sturdy paddles. Paddlings not unlike those I got in school. Becall likes to paddle me OTK, hard and fast. It always puts a smile on her face. The licks are not as hard as when she has me bent over as she does not have the swing room, but they are stingers anyway.
Yesterday morning, I got the courage to ask her to take me OTK and paddle me hard and fast. She was more than willing to accommodate me. First she had me put on red panties and think about the paddling. She used our round red paddle first and followed with our round 9ply paddle. The red one is ¼ inch thick and the 9ply is ¾ inch. They both burn and the 9ply leaves a lasting throb.
She gave me about a dozen with the red paddle and I was surprised first that I was able to take the licks so well and also that she stopped before she had me begging.
Without much delay, she asked me to hand her the 9ply and she went to work with it, although more slowly. I suspect she gave me about 20 licks with it. Again, I was surprised that I could take the licks so well.
I mentioned to her that I had expected the second set of licks to be as fast as the first. She said she could correct that and gave me another 10, hard and fast.
We decided to call these Aunt Becall paddlings, so I can ask for them by name. I think the next time Auntie gets me OTK, all the licks will be hard and fast and she will not stop until I am begging and then go on for awhile longer.
I am not putting down anyone’s lifestyle, I just cannot understand those who use adult spanking as discipline while it is also sexually arousing to them. I like to be spanked. It arouses me. It has nothing to do with discipline. It’s all fun.
Many women and men hide their desire to be spanked behind a supposed need for discipline. I am going to focus on men, as sexually arousal is so evident with us. I just cannot buy into a spanking being punishment when the man is erect and when sex follows the spanking.
After I climax, my interest in sex and spanking is extremely low. That would be the time to punish me. I wonder how many men who need discipline would take a spanking after they climax?