The Biden Adminstration

I have not said anything about the Biden administration. I knew it would be bad, but it is greatly exceeding my expectations. It makes Obama look like a JV play.

It took until June, but Bernie and Elizabeth finally popped up. Bernie with a dream list of progressive pork and Liz with nominees to obstruct or restrict every damn thing.

The Biden administration and its progressive hangers-on are providing a master class on “How to Be an Anticapitalist” and suck the air out of the economy. 

Start by paying people to do nothing—1.8 million workers, according to a recent Morning Consult poll, have turned down jobs due to generous unemployment benefits, including an extra $300 a week from the federal government in some states. Meanwhile, Burger King is offering a $1,500 signing bonus. 

Anticapitalists then shut pipelines (except Russian ones) and suspend drilling leases in parts of Alaska, helping send oil prices above $70. The government says it wants to limit carbon emissions, but then it squashes better energy options like nuclear. 

An anticapitalist would next restrict capital formation, so President Biden has proposed raising the top capital-gains rate from 23.8% to a punitive 43.4% and the top individual income-tax rate to 39.6%. Mr. Biden also wants to waive Covid vaccine patents—making pharma companies think twice before investing in new drugs—and is even pushing a series of antitrust bills that could reverse mergers, like Facebook’s 2012 purchase of Instagram, as if that would do anything good for the economy or consumers. Nothing is safe. 

Add the Federal Trade Commission’s roadblocks to mergers. It worked hard to block early-cancer-detection pioneer Grail’s merger with genome- sequencing firm Illumina, now on hold as it lets the European Commission investigate. This is moronic. If you or a loved one is diagnosed with late- stage cancer in five years, the Biden administration could be to blame. Without meddling, Grail may have found it earlier, when it was still treatable. 

Anticapitalists in Congress are pushing $3.5 trillion in spending unrelated to infrastructure with an Orwellian sleight of hand by declaring it “human infrastructure.” Big surprise, it is larded with climate provisions and other progressive party favors. 

Then anticapitalists limit speech, open the borders, mess with education (math isn’t about getting the right answer anymore), ruin healthcare, and defund the police, causing crime rates to rise. Cities and suburbs have homeless encampments and brazen daytime crime. San Francisco shoplifters limit themselves to a total haul worth less than $950 knowing that the cops won’t stop them if they commit what 2014 California ballot proposition redefined as a misdemeanor. 

Spanking Blogs Are In The Rear View Mirror

Like you, I have noted that for the last two or three years spanking blogs are in decline. Many are no longer active. Some are dim images of their former selves. Even the ones that were most popular now have little content. I mean milking the same thing for years gets a bit tiresome.

Take the one called Incessantly Spanked. She has not been spanked in two years. Her blog is now about what color shoes she bought or the like. I pick this one out because when she was being spanked, it was by a fellow employee in the company parking lot – their tree house – during lunch.

One of the most popular F/M blogs went toes up and now I am seeing comments that would have been posted there, being submitted to OBB. Sorry, guys, but we are not about you being spanked by your landlord, boss, MIL, etc.

Bacall’s Toys

This image shows Bacall’s fav toys from about 20 years back. All but one were her picks, not mine. And that one was a gift from a friend. All but the ruler are still used.

From the left. A metal ruler she found cleaning out my Mothers rolltop desk. She though it worked just dandy on her thighs. 

The pussy whip. It has soft rubber falls that I use to tease her almost to orgasm. Works best when her thighs are on fire.

Her gift from our friend Bill. He made toys as a hobby and gave us several. This one has a soft leather side and a hard leather side. She purrs when the soft side is used and yelps when I flip it over. When I flip it I always tell her Bill wanted her to have it.

Her first purchased toy. It came from Shadow Lane. A pleasure toy, very flexible leather.

I made a batch of holey paddles for friends. They were made with white pine – a light density wood. She glommed on to it and declared she liked it better than any of the leather toys. It marked her conversion from leather to wood. She likes it used moderately. Which is the way I usually employ it. But, sometimes I enjoy her kicking and squirming and use it fast and furious.

When we get home we are going to order this leather paddle from London Tanners. We both got to experience it recently and declare it a winner. It’s unlike anything we have experienced before.

Girls Just Want To Have Fun

Another in the vein of Girls Just Want To Have Fun – and be spanked. Does making it out of college and into the real world mean that the guys become too uptight to spank? The women remain interested.

Oops, wrong blog

Sure she just happened to add a cane to her ensemble.

Hoping someone will give her an assist

She seems to be in a blissful state

More young lasses finding a second use for the ping pong paddles.

Whatever gave the idea to paddle each other?

A delightful addition to her costume

I recall a woman at a spanking party who put sticky notes on her panties indicting what she wanted.

Well there you have it – spanking is something many people sweep under the rug and are embarrassed about their thoughts. Then there are some who are public about their needs.

Bending The Cane

Frequently pictures depicting women with a cane shows them bending it. Is that supposed to be a measure of their authority or what?

While I have no interest in being caned (and I have been) I like to look at women who look like this. Well groomed in attractive lingerie and bright eyes.

The next three are in bras. My newly discovered attire preference for spankers

A cutie who is accurate with a cane


So many who are drawn to spanking also desire to submit to their spanking partner. This is true for both men and women. They seek order in what to them is chaos. They want to be led and be accountable to their partner. Submission seems as necessary to them as breathing, Finding a spanking partner is one challenge. Find one that will accept the offered leadership role is another hurdle.

Getting a partner willing to accept and honor the proffered submission is problematic. Long talks are held, contracts are written and then the submissive may test the dominant to see if they are paying attention.

Some intelligent women who want to be submissive seem to come alive when they find a dominant man. The game is on for them. They immediately concentrate their mind on finding ways to annoy the dominant, to flaunt his authority, to end-run him. They call it testing to see if he means what he says. I say it is a tiresome unrewarding game for the dominant.

Convince me I am wrong.

I would never accept a woman’s submission. I like women who are feisty and self-assured. I have zero interest in monitoring anyone’s behavior. Any woman that could interest me is able to pull her own weight and motivate herself to achieve her goals.

I don’t know why anyone would want to be submissive. I will not submit to anyone. I will gladly go along with suggestions, directions as long as they ask in a civil and courteous manner. I will not be told what to do.

I have never had the time or inclination to micromanage anyone.

There many terms for submissive/dominant roles. FLR/MLR, Sub/Dom, Master/Slave [OK, I coined Male Led Relationship] None of these roles are of interest to me. In fact one is repugnant.

Our relationship is equal. We both have responsibilities. We share chores.  We have never said you do that, I will do this. It has just evolved.

I started cooking more in the last few years. She stays out of her kitchen when I cook. I do likewise when she is the chef. I will usually do the chopping for her, but I do it out of her way.

It’s a long way of saying we share and we both have spheres of responsibility and there is never any conflict.

We are both alpha types. Usually, when I spank her she is not at all submissive. However, she sometimes relishes being a bedroom submissive. It usually takes her a day to meld her mind to being submissive.  When we play she will use sir for that time. Her choice, never mine.

Oral has never been a significant part of sex for us but she loves to suck my cock while in her submissive frame of mind.  Minutes after she comes she is back to being feisty. I would not want it any other way.

“How do I find a woman who wants me to spank her?”

A reader writes:

Many men seem to ask the question, “How do I find a woman who wants me to spank her?”

(Although the above problem used to be solvable, the question, “How do I find a woman to spank me?” Is quite another matter and often involves spending substantial amounts of money or promise of unholy matrimony.)

I am old enough to remember Shadow Lane personals and CompuServe and AOL forms. Those places were teeming with women seeking men to spank them.   There was a pretty simple formula to get them to choose you. Basically, you had to prove you were safe, gainfully employed and would treat them with respect. They also liked status and success, although they didn’t define it like most of us would. It was pretty easy.   

My competition was largely dweebs who posted sexually explicit pictures of themselves and employed disrespectful language promising Spanking women into oblivion and then “fucking them silly” instead of asking questions.

Yes, I speak from experience.  I met as many women as I wanted to, which was probably four or five over a period of 18 months. I finally got tired of it and stopped. Many of them were married, which since I wasn’t having sex with them, was not especially morally concerning to me. However, I did fear for my safety. One was a gun collector and the last one’s husband was a police officer! I can only imagine how that could have ended up. 

These women were all highly sexual and were so intent on being spanked and so deprived that they were great fun to be with and easy to get them to take a moderately hard nude spanking with a paddle.    This was not my idea, but theirs’s. The most frequent request I had from them was to go faster, harder, and longer.   
I’m certainly not bragging about this but I do know how to talk to people and find out what they want and then describe it back to them in their language. That’s key to any kind of influence going back to Cicero. (Cicero with some Roman guy, never mind.)

Every guy that I read about, with maybe two exceptions so far are holding forth on something they’ve never done.  

I’m not looking for anyone because I have two partners. They are both wonderful friends, we have a very clear arrangement that our spanking is friendship and we trade spankings with each other. But, I remain fascinated by the subject of finding women wanting spanking relationships.   

I guess I should qualify my criteria in saying that I wanted women who wanted a relationship, not just one spanking. I think that is unusual. 

I’ve been asking this question everywhere that I thought I might get an answer: “Where do you find these women today that want to be spanked and aren’t crazy?“ 
I know that they are out there.  The obvious place would be Facebook but they censor this sort of thing. Tinder is for hookups and is 90% male. I don’t know if anybody has used lately but I don’t think much of them and I think it’s mostly for serious dating, not spanking.

The challenge we face is that we want to do something that is highly related to sex but not necessarily sexual. It is sexual in a sense, but no one is admitting they want orgasms. I was very clear that I was not after sex but all of the women that I spanked wanted orgasms after they realized I wasn’t going to give them one. Of course, what is a gentleman to do but oblige a lady?   I would consider it, but no intercourse, for all the obvious reasons.

As with most of my writing, I probably expanded two paragraphs into two pages. But I’d really like to know if anyone reading this knows how to find women who want to be spanked without going to public spanking parties?  The people I was interested in and that I spanked did not go to them.

Has anyone had any success personally (not theoretically?).  

thank you,

Best Lines While OTK

The first four have been uttered by Bacall

“Now remember, I’m very delicate today”

“Why don’t you save yourself for later?”

“You call that a spanking?”

“Have you started yet?”.

“You’re making a BIG mistake! Huge!”

“How ’bout a ham sandwich?”

Looking at the carpet: “I gotta get that new vacuum cleaner…”

“Are you sure you wanna do this? ‘Cause if you’re at all in doubt…?”

“Okay. What’s in it for me?”

“You call that a spanking? My butt has hurt more standing on a crosstown bus!”

“If you hurry, I think we can still make the Early Bird special at the diner.”

“What? You want my attention, too?!”

“Have you started yet?”

SMACK!  “One.”

SPANK!  “Two.”

WHACK!  “Buckle my shoe.”

At a party when I paused to change implements, the young lady brightly inquired “What time does the buffet start?”

Bacall’s best line. She was OTK with a friend who had big hands and spanked hard. He had on shorts and she grabbed a handful of his leg hair and said “We are not going to hurt each other are we Mike?”

How about some original music from the Mississippi songwriter Paul Thorn.

It’s called Joanie, The Jehova Witness Stripper.

Readers Decide

Back in February, I posted a short vignette about a paddling. I wanted to revist it and ask you readers to say what happened next.

So read the original post Witnessing A Paddling – An Audition With Ed and then try these questions.

What were Sharon’s memories of her last paddling from her parents? 
I am taking about her thoughts and feelings not the mechanics of a paddling. What was going on in her mind when she learned she was to be paddled. As well as what she was thinking post paddling. I would think it would be best told from a woman’s POV. But what do I know.

Did Mom do the honors or Dad or both?

Did she have a cry and then did her fingers get busy?

Did she have a date?

If so, perhaps he was allowed to come over for a few minutes. Did she tell him about the paddling?  Did his hand fondle her bottom?

Oh, you want Hump Day too?

And you thought the gals put pillows on the bed for decoration.